Keeping a Friend’s Garden
July 26, 2013
Earlier this month I was photographing my garden and planning blog posts. Then one of my favorite friends was in a horrific accident and all my attention went to her: http://www.hoodrivernews.com/news/2013/jul/13/local-artist-hospitalized-after-motorcycle-acciden/ We had just finished a meeting for an August art show and as we stood on the corner chatting afterwards, I remember thinking how cute Kathy looked in her motorcycle leathers & helmet. Everything changed less than an hour later.
Her friend Dana set up a calendar of tasks for friends to help with, like feeding her cats and watering her garden. Once a week I water her garden and pet her cats, filling up the food bowl if it’s empty. I gathered some photos of our mutual friends to paste on her hospital wall so no matter where she looks, she’ll see someone who loves her. It doesn’t feel like enough. Kathy has many friends that are thinking of ways to help, to show our love and support. Along with many other artists, I’m donating my work for upcoming fundraisers and I don’t know if that’ll be enough.
I decided to give 20% of my sales towards Kathy’s fund. If you’ve been thinking about buying a gift of glass, garden art, or something for your home; notecards or photograph prints on metal or canvas, you’ll also be contributing to Kathy’s fund and I thank you in advance! http://www.zibbet.com/SteiderStudios No, this is not a plug to get you to buy something….I’m simply looking at any possible way to help my friend & her family.
Kathy is one of those people who everyone loves. She’s full of life, energy and effervescence. She sits on many committees with me and keeps a beautiful garden as you can see in these photos. I’ve been her student & she’s been mine. She is a sports enthusiast, skiing and snowboarding during winter months & windsurfing in summer. I could go on and on about her but I think you get the idea. She smiles at everyone and they can’t help but smile back. She radiates positive energy.
It was my honor to spend a day with her in the hospital, tending to things staff has little or no time for. Misting her face, helping her eat, holding her hand, turning her fan, getting more ice…anything she asked of me I did. It was one of the hardest days I’ve ever spent because of the circumstance, yet I witnessed her joyful spirit courageously fighting.
I already adored her husband, but I have renewed admiration for him in watching how he lovingly tends her.
If you can send a prayer or positive energy with healthy vibes, they’d be appreciated.
If you’re in the Columbia River Gorge, watch for announcements of opportunities to help.
I don’t know when Kathy will be back in her lovely garden, but perhaps the best way to show support later will be to purchase her enamel jewelry, wall art and switch plates. I’ll post a link to her on-line shop when she’s ready to return to work. In the meantime, if you’re in the Columbia River Gorge, you can purchase her jewelry now at Columbia Arts in Hood River. She’s also one of the featured artists for First Friday in August with her enamel wall hangings. The show, ‘A Glass Act’ runs through the end of August, so you’ll have all of August to look for Kathy’s work!